How the Whitberg Profile is made

1. Session One · 30 minutes

   Establishing

   A broad first conversation that maps your relational history - how you have chosen, partnered, and sustained. Most of the framework is surfaced here, at moderate depth.

2. Between one and two

   A few quick questions

   Five to ten direct questions, under five minutes. They settle what a conversation does not need to dwell on, so the next call can focus on what matters for you specifically.

3. Session Two · 45 minutes

   Deepening

   The longest session. Focused on the load-bearing patterns - the ones that only emerge from how you describe an event, not from being asked about them directly. Guided by what the first session and instrument left open.

4. Between two and three

   A short final set

   A narrower set of questions that resolves the last remaining ambiguities before the final conversation.

5. Session Three · 30 minutes

   Integration

   The findings come together into the central observations that define your profile, alongside the recognitions that tend to arrive in a third conversation - when something is said aloud for the first time.

6. Delivered in ten days

   The Whitberg Profile

   203 Markers across nine Vectors, written from your own words. Yours to keep.

Ninety minutes of conversation is not enough to assess two hundred Markers carefully. The instruments are not extra work - they are load distribution. They take the direct questions out of the conversations, so the conversations can do what only conversations can: notice how you tell a story, and the patterns that surface when you are not being asked about them.

The Whitberg Profile assesses 203 Markers, organized into nine Vectors. Every observation is grounded in transcript evidence from your own words - Observed, never assumed.

• 01

  Relational Dispositions

  Documented behavioral patterns - Stability Aversion, Selection-Stage Vigilance, Sustained Curiosity, and others - observed across your romantic history.

• 02

  Axes

  Continuous calibrations: Intent, Requirement Broadness, Pace, Disclosure Depth, Repair Speed.

• 03

  Domains

  Where your life is anchored - physical, intellectual, social, creative, domestic, civic, and others.

• 04

  Past Impact

  What from your history may be shaping your present, observed without interpretation.

• 05

  Chooser Signature

  A portrait of how you select - fast or slow, intuition-led or criteria-led, drawn to growth or to arrival.

• 06

  Lexical Patterns

  The metaphors, words, and phrases you use to describe love, partnership, and conflict.

• 07

  Self-Account Discrepancies

  The gaps between what you say you want and the partners you actually choose.

• 08

  Activation Profile

  What turns interest on and off for you - and what makes once-lost interest return.

• 09

  Resilience Signature

  How you metabolize disappointment, rejection, and rupture.